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Wednesday 8 January 2014

French or Finn?

Do you want to know how does it feel to live in France (FR) and Finland (FI). Take a look at my article below and you will find how much different they actually are.



Situation 1: Greeting people
  • FR:  French people are known to be warm, so greeting people has been part of their custom to  shows their courtesy.  If you meet your friend, you will hug and kiss him/her on the cheek. So suppose if you enter a room and your friends are already there, you will have to do those things (hug and kiss) to each and everyone there one by one. When you meet some strangers on the street, you will great him/her by Bonjour (Good Day), Bonne SoirĂ©e (Good Evening), or Au Revoir (Good Bye) even though you don't even know them.
  • FI:  Finn people are known to be quiet. So first of all, you don't expect to be hug or evenmore be kissed. You just simply give a friendly handshake to your friends when you meet them. In case you meet with strangers on the street, just be quiet. They will not greet you, and you are not suppose to greet them as well. Here silence is golden. So by being quiet (not making any noise) means that you appreciate people around you because you are not bothering them.
Situation 2: Understanding class schedule
  • FR:  When it is written that the class started at 8 AM, it literally means 8 o'clock. So you should come to class by 8 or even better before 8 if you don't want to miss the lecture. Same thing goes with the end time of the class. If the schedule said it ends at 10 AM, then it will end at exactly that time.
  • FI:  when it is written that the class started at 8 AM, it means that the class will start at 8:15 unless you are told otherwise by the Lecturer. So you don't have to be worry when you got up late, since the Lecturer will not come until 15 minutes later. But the more awesome thing is that even though it starts 15 minutes late, surprisingly it ends 15 minutes earlier. So if the schedule is 8-10 AM, it means that the class will be over at 9:45.
Situation 3: Taking Bus
  •  FR:  The bus price is cheap, only 1.3 euros per trip and if you travel during 1 hour and change the bus during that time, you don't need to pay additional fee. In France, you can wait the bus at the bus station, just stand there or sit if benchs are available. The bus will stop at every station, so if you are familiar with the station where you suppose to get off, you will not miss it. Just look at the panel that display the next station, and get off when you reach there.
  • FI: The bus ticket is expensive, it is 3.3 or 3.6 euros per trip depending on the bus number. So if your apartment is quite far from the university (just like mine T_T), you will spend at least 7 euros every single day just to go to university and come back home. In Finland, if you want to take bus, you should wave your hand when the bus is approaching the station, failed to do so, the driver will not stop at your bus station and you will miss the bus. Here, the bus will not stop at every station unless there is someone waving at the bus station or there is passenger who push the stop button. So if you want to get off the bus, you must push the stop button just before the bus approaching your destination. Otherwise, the driver will never stop, and you have to get off on the next station which is pretty far.
Situation 4: Eating
  • FR: French people can not be separated from cheese and wine. It has been an integral part of their daily diet. So don't be surprised if you find exceptionally lots of cheese variants in the supermarket, and it's actually common to see French eats cheese just like a snack. Another visible nature of French cuisine is the sauce. They love to put sauces into the food, but don't mistakenly think as if it is a chilly sauce or anything spicy like that because trust me they don't really eat any spice. So they use sauce to enrich the flavor of the food but they don't go extreme, so the taste is much more plain, a bit salty, and sometimes cheesy. Lastly they usually have some baguette (bread) to accompany their meal.
  • FI: The flavours of Finnish food is characterized by its the exotic northern nature. Being close to the nature (70% of Finland areas are forest, they have lots of lakes and particularly the 2nd biggest lake in the whole Europe, which is why the country is called Land of Thousand Lakes) has somewhat a lot of influence into their gastronomy. It is kinda mix of variety of pure products, such as fish, vegetables, grain, mushrooms, and fruits. They care of the nature and they preserve this spirit when they prepare the meal. One thing I notice is that the food here is expensive, I think it's because of the harsh climate that makes fresh fruit and vegetables were unavailable during most time of the year.
Situation 5: Being a Guest
  • FR:  In France, if you are close to someone or some family, they will invite you over a dinner in their house. A dinner invitation is valued as an honor that bonds a relationship between people. So if someday you are invited by a French people over a dinner in their house, don't forget to bring some souvenirs or gift (like wine or flower for example) to show your gratitude to them.
  • FI: In Finland, sauna is not seen merely as an bathing activity but it is somewhow a social activity that fused and unseparated from their live. A typical Finn will go for sauna at least one or two times a week regularly. So if a Finn is wilingly to spend their sauna time together with you, it means that they really regard you as close friend to them because normally only a couple or a family take a sauna together.

Monday 6 January 2014

Adieu France!


2 January 2014 was my last day in France. I will take a bus from Nancy to Lorraine Station then followed by a TGV from Lorraine Station to Paris. And from Paris, take the plane at Charles De Gaulle to Riga. Then from Riga, take another plane to Lappeenranta, Finland. It was quite a long journey after all.

Me and my friend Chandra checked out from CROUS residence early at 9 AM. There is two ladies coming  into my room to check whether I had cleaned it properly and not broke anything. Unfortunately because I did not washed the curtain, they made me pay 13 euro for cleaning service. We still have about 2 and a half hour before our bus came, so we decided to spent some time at McD to have a breakfast. We met our friens, Nahin and Zainie at Callot tram station. We took the tram to reach St. Leon where we suppose to wait for the bus to Lorraine station. There we met other friends: Fisayo and Rohan, who have been waiting in the bus station before us. Suddenly some of our Indonesian friends came to say goodbye and we were so happy knowing that they really care for us. Not so long, the bus came and we were struggling to put our giant suitcases inside the bus luggage since everyone else also doing the same thing. So it was basically first come, first in.

The bus took 30 minutes to reach Lorraine station. Surprise! the TGV was delayed for one and half hour. This is so unbelievable because normally people willing to pay more to take TGV because it can be relied on, it usually come on time since we have no traffic jam on the train railway, right? I guess it was due to high season of holiday travel. So here we are, the six of us waiting in station sitting on the floor like homeless people hoping that the TGV will come soon. The TGV came at about 14:30 and manage to arrive at Paris by 16:00. Getting out from TGV, we rushed to find the Terminal. We were running along and out of breath when we finally found the Airbaltic counter. Oh Thank God, we were not late! At 18:00 our plane took off from Paris and landed safely in Riga by 22:00.

Capture road view from inside of moving TGV
Inside TGV to Paris
Still in St. Leon waiting for the bus 


 
In front of St. Leon with my Indonesian friends

New Years Eve

Initially I planned to have my new years eve in Paris, but somehow because one reason and another, I ended up staying in Nancy and had a quite New Years eve. Fortunately I had many friends here so I wouldn't be alone during the turn of the year. I spent the new years eve with my Indonesian friends, we went for dinner together at Chicken Spot. It is a halal restaurant which sell some stuffs like KFC, including fried chicken, fries, burger, and softdrinks.

After the dinner, we thought we are going to spend some time in Place Stanislas aka the City Center, in case perhaps they have some fireworks or anything fancy like that. However when we reached Place Stanislas, we found nothing but few people walking around and some teenagers seemed to be drunk. So we continued our journey to see if they opened the Pepiniere Park in which they didn't. Had nowhere to go, we just kept walking and headed to the Euroline Bus Station where I found some river and some ships too. I was surprised because I have lived here for about 4 months but I never found this place before. We spend some time to enjoy the view and finally decided to go home. It was about 23:15, not yet 24:00 already but since we felt so boring we thought that it might be better to just return home wait for the year to alter.

Dinner at Chicken Spot

Still at Chicken Spot

Somewhere near Pepiniere


This is also somewhere near Pepiniere

Christmas tree in Place Stanislas

me sitting in Place Stanislas

Somewhere near Euro Line bus station

One and only river I found in Nancy

A ship named after Niagara waterfall

In the park alongside the river


Carry In Your Memory

I don't know why I became so emotional like this, I just got here in Finland for 3 days but I really fell that I'm kinda miss my time in France. So I put all these pictures that still remain in my pocket camera to remind myself about Nancy, France. As people said that a picture word thousand words so in this particular post, I'm not going to give much sentences because I intend to make some kinda memory album.So here they are, some of the my most memorable places at Nancy.

My apartment room that I miss a lot

My apartment building

Match Supermarket Parking Lot

Public Bike Stall

The Tram Station

The Junction that I cross every day

U Express and Subway where I used to go almost every week

Mc Donald Resturant just nearby my apartment

Farewell

This post is a story about my farewell in Nancy, France. Soon I will leave France and not coming back until January 2015 to do my Master Thesis. Deep in my heart, I know that I'm gonna miss this city so much. That's why me and my friend Chandra decided to throw a small farewell party with our lovely Indonesian friend here in Nancy. We gather at Hana and Wulan's room in Velodrome and open the meeting with dinner. We order some pizza from Halal Restaurant nearby and take it to the room. 

After dinner, we played our favorite card games which called DIX-IT. The game can be played by maximum 6 persons. My friend Vicki who is addicted to this game has finally bought a set of extended cards to play because we already tired of the old one. Each player will get 6 cards and a rabbit token. In total, there are 6 rabbit tokens with different color: red, white, blue, green, yellow, and pink. Every player will take the turn to be a story teller, the turn can be either clockwise or counter-clockwise. The story teller must select one out of six cards in his/her hand and make some sentences/ phrases/ paragraphs/ story. However the story teller must not show his/her card to other players. Then each other players will give the story teller one of their card that suits the story. Next, the story teller shuffle all the 6 cards to make them random and then turn the face up.  Finally the other players will guess which card is the one that the story teller is referring into. If nobody or everybody finds the correct picture, the storyteller scores 0, and each of the other players scores 2. Otherwise the storyteller and all players who found the correct answer score 3. Players other than the storyteller score 1 point for each vote their own pictures receive. After the guess has finished, every player take one card from the deck, so the cards on their hands remain 6 all the time during the game. The game ends when the card deck is empty. The player with the highest point total wins the game.
 
 After playing two rounds, we were getting bored and decided to play a new games. I did not know what it is called exactly, but in Indonesia this TV quiz is really popular and we refered it to "Bisa Jadi" (Can Be). So the game basically to pick two players, one who direct and one who guess the words. The player who direct can only say 3 words: either YES, NO, or MAYBE. The other player will guess only talk to the director. No one else should give him/her a hint.  The player with the highest number of correct words wins the game. 





Christmas Market

Two weeks before Christmas until the Christmas Eve, you will be surprised at how beautiful the night at Nancy was. The street were decorated with lights. And the most important thing to visit is the street Christmas Market which sell anything from chocolate, churros, hot wine, clothes, jewelry, decoration, etc. The market does not intended to children only, although I saw children quite everywhere here. But I believed that everyone must be attracted to this flashing flickering stalls. The Christmas market is actually a collection of small temporary kiosk made of wood and decorated by many colorful lights that glow nicely during the night. There are lot of location of the Christmas Market in Nancy, the first one which is bigger was near DARTY Shop just close to Nancy Gare, the other one was near C&A Shop.











Secret Santa Games

In December, everyone were getting excited about Christmas. Well if you were children you might waiting for Santa came at Christmas Eve and gave you some of toys that you have been dreaming for so long.  So in order to bring back those childhood memories, my friends decided to organized a Secret Santa Games. If you agree to participate in the game, you will pick a random paper from a box, the paper contain someone's name. You will be this someone's Secret Santa and therefore you are obliged to buy some stuffs with values that has been agreed upon collectively. However you must not tell the person that you are his/her Secret Santa. Thus, you will give the present anonymously. On the other hand, you will also receive some present from your own Secret Santa, someone whose identity is hidden.

So my classmates were playing this Secret Santa Game. The price of the present is 10 euros and we agreed to gather at 18 December 2013 to reveal the Secret Santa's identity. What is funny about this game is that when I take the draw I got my own name so it means that I was my own Secret Santa which is literally mean that I will buy a present for myself.



 






St. Nicolas Day

In Nancy, St. Nicolas Day is a popular traditional feast day marked by live entertainment. People will go out and gather at Place Stanislas to see the Fireworks exhibition for about 30 minutes. The fireworks will start at 7 PM but if you want to get inside, you need to be hurry. Because it will be very crowded there. My friends and I reached there at about 6:30 and unfortunately we were too late to get inside. The guard already close the fence, so we can't enter it. As the result we enjoy the firework from quite a distance outside Place Stanislas. 

FYI St Nicolas is the protector of the weak and oppressed, as well as the patron saint of lawyers, seamen and school children. More about St. Nicolas Day in Nancy can be found here and here.